$Q$: variational family
from $$ p({\bf z}_i \mid {\bf x_i}, \theta^{(t)} )= \frac{\hat p({\bf z}_i \mid {\bf x_i}, \theta^{(t)} )}{ p( {\bf x_i}\mid \theta^{(t)} )} $$
for the optimization w.r.t. $q$ we can neglect the second term, so we have for the E-Step:
$$q^{(t+1)}= \text{arg}\min_{q\in Q}\sum_{_i} \mathcal D_{KL}\left( q({\bf z}_i) \mid \mid \hat p({\bf z}_i \mid {\bf x_i}, \theta^{(t)} )\right)$$In variational EM with mean field approximation we get